The latest Hollywood somebody to be accused of rape is Ed Westwick, the actor known for playing Chuck Bass on Gossip Girl.Kristina Cohen, a Los Angeles-based actress and writer, shared a comprehensive Facebook post Monday evening detailing the night Westwick violently and aggressively sexually assaulted her. She says it happened three years ago at Westwick’s house, which she was visiting with a producer she was dating.
She starts out the post with some backstory, explaining why she is choosing to speak up now, in light of the ‘Me Too’ movement.
The last month has been incredibly difficult. Like so many women I too have a story of sexual assault, and the outpouring of stories have been both triggering and emotionally exhausting. I’ve gone back and forth over and over again, unsure if I should speak up. If I could speak. And if so, will I be heard? I was sexually assaulted three years ago. It was a dark time in my life. My mom was dying of cancer and I didn’t have the support system or time to process and deal with the aftermath of the rape. I buried my pain and guilt to make space for the onslaught that came after my mom’s death, just three months later. Even now, I grapple with feelings of guilt. Unfounded worry that in some way I was to blame. I don’t know where these feelings come from. Social conditioning that everything is always the woman’s fault? That a man’s inability to keep himself off of our bodies is somehow because of us, not him? I’ve grown considerably in the three years since my assault, so to revisit is painful. To dig in and relive this night in order to accurately share the events, feels like a continued violation. My stomach is in knots, scared as hell to share this publicly, as even fully reconciling with myself has been a tough process.
Cohen then recalled being raped by Ed Westwick.
I was briefly dating a producer who was friends with the actor Ed Westwick. It was this producer who brought me up to Ed’s house where I met Ed for the first time. I wanted to leave when Ed suggested “we should all fuck”. But the producer didn’t want to make Ed feel awkward by leaving. Ed insisted we stay for dinner. I said I was tired and wanted to leave, trying to get out of what was already an uncomfortable situation. Ed suggested I nap in the guest bedroom. The producer said we would stay for just another 20 more minutes to smooth everything over, and then we could leave. So I went and laid down in the guest room where I eventually fell asleep, I was woken up abruptly by Ed on top of me, his fingers entering my body. I told him to stop, but he was strong. I fought him off as hard as I could but he grabbed my face in his hands, shaking me, telling me he wanted to fuck me. I was paralyzed, terrified. I couldn’t speak, I could no longer move. He held me down and raped me.
Cohen says the producer she was dating placed the blame on her, urging her to keep quiet. So she did.
It was a nightmare, and the days following weren’t any better. The producer put the blame on me, telling me I was an active participant. Telling me that I can’t say anything because Ed will have people come after me, destroy me, and that I could forget about an acting career. Saying there’s no way I can go around saying Ed “raped” me and that I don’t want to be “that girl.” And for the longest time, I believed him. I didn’t want to be “that girl”. I now realize the ways in which these men in power prey on women, and how this tactic is used so frequently in our industry, and surely, in many others.
Cohen explained the juxtaposition she sees in Westwick’s character–that he has received awards for things like “shaping the world” even though the way he gains power is through intimidation.
I’m sickened to see men like Ed respected in such a public way. Interviewed by prestigious platforms such as the Oxford Union Society at Oxford University, where he was honored as one of their “People who Shape our World.” How does this end? Men like Ed using fame and power to rape and intimidate but then continue through the world collecting accolades.
She hopes her story will help others who have been through similar experiences, and that victims sharing their stories may help society “reset and realign.”
I hope my coming forward will help others to know that they are not alone, that they are not to blame, and it is not their fault. Just as the other women and men coming forward have helped me to realize the same. I hope that my stories and the stories of others help to reset and realign the toxic environments and power imbalances that have created these monsters.
UPDATE: Tuesday, Nov. 7, 2017, 12:31 p.m. EST: Ed Westwick posted a statement to Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook denying the allegations.“I do not know this woman,” his statement reads. “I have never forced myself in any manner, on any woman. I certainly have never committed rape.”
— Ed Westwick (@EdWestwick) November 7, 2017