Losing a spouse is one of the hardest things to go through. It’s difficult to say “I do” and plan to spend a life with someone.
No one wants to have to bury a loved one. It’s even harder to find out that they’ve been cheating on you. A lot of things come into perspective.
The widow shared her story on TikTok.
Bridgette Davis shared a video on TikTok about losing her husband. The video was about the crazy things that happened after his death.
Davis discovered that her husband was having an affair.
She had to inform his mistress that he had died.
She shared a picture from the conversation with the mistress in the video.
It’s difficult to read.
The mistress sent Davis a text after learning of her husband’s death. She asked if she could go to where Davis’ husband is buried. Davis replied “no.”
Many people said that Davis was wrong to speak with the mistress in the video.
Many people on TikTok said that Davis was wrong to not allow her to grieve properly. Davis and her two children had a loss, but they weren’t the only ones.
The mistress suffered a loss regardless of whether she admitted it or not.
Some believed that despite the wrongdoing in the affair, heartache and grief are the same.
The million-dollar question was asked by others.
People on TikTok were curious to know if the mistress was blind and unaware that the husband was married. Sometimes the other woman doesn’t know that the guy is married. She wasn’t to blame if that was the case.
Davis shared a conversation he had with the mistress.
Davis said that the mistress knew that her husband was married with two kids. The mistress shared that her husband needed support and she was there for him.
Davis wanted others to understand why she felt this way after her husband’s death.
Davis shared that her significant other experienced bipolar turmoil and had unpleasant quite a long while. The two had been with one another for north of 10 years.
He needed professional help because he had gotten worse mentally.
She had been cheated on multiple times by her husband, who refused to get any help. Davis caught him doing it.
Her husband didn’t want help.
Her husband would threaten suicide every time they got into a fight. After fleeing to Mexico, her husband revealed that he had spent all of their money and gotten into a lot of trouble.
Davis didn’t want him around their children often until he got help.
Her husband lived with his parents in a cabin 45 minutes away. Davis wanted to protect her children until her husband got help.
He took his own life because he got worse.
Davis said that it was difficult to watch the man she loves decline over time.
I can’t imagine being in that kind of pain.
She didn’t want to harm her two daughters, so she thought it was important to bring awareness to the disorder.
Sharing the story of her husband was important to her because she didn’t want her daughter to think that her father was bad.
His mental health struggles and his affair were included.
She was hoping that telling the story would provide some kind of comfort to other people who are going through the same thing.
Also, she was applauded for her strength and courage.
She was thought to be in the wrong by some people.
After sharing her story, many realized that she was a warrior woman who was doing the best she could in a heartbreaking situation.